Category Archives: 2017

February 8, 2017 — Knees & Hips

Dear William, Daniel, Catherine, Michael, and Sarah, (and your parents), (and any future descendants and their parents),

For quite a long time now, my hips have been hurting me. At first, they hurt when I would lie down — no matter which way I was facing, they hurt — face up, they hurt; on my side, facing right, they hurt; facing left, they hurt (but less so, because I would see Babcia Kryisa, and that made it better).

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Over time, my hips started hurting from just standing — NO FUN to be at a cocktail party!

So, I started taking Advil PM — 2 tablets each night. That would put me to sleep, even thought the pain was still there.

I told my doctor about this, but he was not particularly impressed — he told me to see an orthopedist; and told me I may need hip replacement surgery.

SURGERY!!! My sister Olenka had hip replacement surgery several years ago — this is not something I would be looking forward to.

Over time, the pain decreased; BUT, then my knees started to hurt also. Bacia Krysia told me that I was too heavy, and I was crushing myself. (I AM heavy — 317 lbs.!)

NOT a pretty picture 🙁

Babcia Krysia bought me a cane — which I do not need for regular walking; but, is VERY helpful when I need to climb or go-down stairs.

A few days ago, when I was visiting my doctor for my quarterly blood test, I convinced him that it may be a good idea to get some X-Rays of my hips and knees — he was noncommittal, but he did give me a recipe so that I could get the X-Rays.

Today, I was driving by the X-Ray place, so I stopped in and got X-Rayed:

These are my hips.

My Hips X-Ray Report

These are my knees.

My Knees X-Ray Report

Bottom line — things do not look that bad (but, it hurts). But, the alternative could be worse — I could be pushing up daisies.

If you want to catch-up on some of my other medical adventures, you may want to read HERE and HERE — I had other medical adventures, but I will save those for some other day.

Now, I have to get back to work.

Love,

Dziadziuś Paweł.

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February 5, 2017 — New Third Cousin (Magdalena Maczynska)

Dear William, Daniel, Catherine, Michael, and Sarah, (and your parents), (and any future descendants and their parents),

Congratulations! You have a NEW Third Cousin! Her name is Magdalena Maczynska, and she was born on February 1, 2017, in Warszawa Poland.

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Probably, the easiest way for you to understand this Family Tree is to print it out, and then paste the pages together (each next to each other) — to do so, go HERE.

As you can see from this Family Tree, Magdalena is the daughter of Marek’s, Rysiu’s, & Malgosia’s Second Cousin, Kasia Maczynska (nee Tomala), who is the daughter of my First Cousin, Roza Tomala (nee Bobrowska), who is the daughter of my Dad’s sister, Teresa Bobrowska (nee Kostro).

I met Kasia (Magdalena’s Mom), when Malgosia, John, Marek, Kelly, Babcia Krysia and I traveled to Poland in 2006 — I started telling you about that trip HERE (unfortunately, I never got around to telling you the rest of that story — maybe I will have a chance to do so soon).

Anyway, on our second day in Poland, we attended a dinner hosted by my First Cousin Roza and her family. That is when I met Kasia.

On May 26, 2012, Kasia married Piotr Mączyński.

5/26/2012

 

Together, Piotr and Kasia set up a photography business — FlipFrames

Piotr & Kasia

I hope that each of you will have the chance to open your own business some day — it is hard work, but it can be very rewarding.

Today is the Superbowl — so, I have to run (I need to prepare some snacks).

Love,

Dziadziuś Paweł.

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January 21, 2017 — The Women’s March & Our Constitution

Dear William, Daniel, Catherine, Michael, and Sarah, (and your parents), (and any future descendants and their parents),

Earlier today, Michael, Daniel, Malgosia, Babcia Krysia and I marched — we marched in the Westfield (N.J.) “sister” march of the Women’s March on Washington. Westfield’s March was one of six in New Jersey. According to the Women’s March on Washington, 673 marches took place worldwide and more than 2.5 million people RSVPed to participate. In Westfield, several thousand people participated in the “Sister March.”

Here are some photos from our March:

So, why were me marching? Well, I recently told you about Mr. Trump being elected president of the United Sates of America — he actually became president yesterday, when the Inauguration ceremony was held. So, today, many people wanted to express their disapproval of Mr. Trump’s actions and behavior. To express that disapproval, a protest march was organized. Our right to hold a protest march is protected under our Constitution.

A constitution is a document that explains the social contract that had been entered by a group of people, and is applicable to all people who enter the country that it applies to (in our case, the United States of America) — it is a basic law that describes the rights and powers of the citizens, and their government.

Signing the Constitution, September 17, 1787

Our Constitution was signed on September 17, 1787. After it was signed, it needed to be approved (“ratified”) by all the sates — here is a map of the states that existed then, and the dates when each of them ratified our Constitution:

Shortly after the United States agreed on its Constitution, the people of Poland decided that this was a good idea, and they agreed to have their constitution as well. The Polish Constitution was created on May 3, 1791 — it was the first constitution of its kind in Europe.

The Polish Constitution of May 3, 1791 was a milestone in the history of the Polish-Lithuanian Commonwealth and the high point of the Polish Enlightenment.

If you want to find out who the various people are who are depicted in this painting, go HERE.

But, let’s get back to the U.S. Constitution — that is what protects US.

The Preamble to our Constitution says:

We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.

The Preamble is followed by seven Articles — Article I is the basis for the Legislative branch of our government; Article II is the basis for the Executive branch of our government; and Article III is the basis for the Judicial branch of our government. Be aware of the fact that our government is made up of THREE branches of government.

If you want to read the entire Constitution, go HERE.

Two years after the signing of the Constitution, people decided that some amendments were necessary — they started off by enacting ten amendments — now known as the Bill of Rights.

The very First Amendment states:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

Thus, the First Amendment states the the government cannot restrict our freedom of speech, nor our right to get together with others for peaceful purposes. THIS is what gives us the right to march and protest.

People have been protesting in the U.S. since before there even was a U.S. — an example is The Boston Tea Party.

Examples, in my lifetime, were the Vietnam War Protests; and the voting rights marches.

I did not take part in those protest marches, and I do feel guilty about that — especially about not taking part in the voting rights marches.

As a family, our first involvement with social justice was participating in the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear that took place on October 30, 2010.

Marek, Rysiu, Krysia & Kelly at the Rally to Restore Sanity and/or Fear

A year later, Babcia Krysia and I visited the Occupy Wall Street protest in N.Y.C.

Babcia Krysia at the Occupy Wall Street protest.

So, what I want you to get from all of this is that as Americans, we have the right to protest against the faults of our government — but, remember, the protest MUST be peaceful.

Free speech is an American right; but, be careful how you use it — you cannot stand up in a crowded movie theatre and yell “Fire!”

All rights must be balanced with responsibilities — if you are going to march in protest, obtain a permit to do so — from the photos of our “Sister” March you see that the Police were fully involved; they protected us; and they protected the civil peace so motorists would be inconvenienced to the least amount possible.

Love,

Dziadziuś Paweł.

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January 1, 2017 — Happy New Year!

Dear William, Daniel, Catherine, Michael, and Sarah, (and your parents), (and any future descendants and their parents),

Happy New Year!

I have been thinking about you, so I decided to spend some time with you via this letter. Today is the first day of the new year — it also the first day of the rest of our lives.

Babcia Krysia and I spent the afternoon taking a drive — we went to Sandy Hook Beach. Going on a drive is something the two of us enjoyed doing together — throughout our marriage, often we would hop in the car, randomly choose a direction (North, South, East or West), and off we went.

Today, Babcia Krysia suggested South East — and so we went. Along the way, we stopped at several beach towns that we never go to during the Summer — just to check them out. We were pleasantly surprised by Atlantic Highlands — it had several restaurants, and the downtown looked like a lively place — we will have to do a more detailed investigative study of this location soon.

While driving, Babcia Krysia and I spoke about our children — Mark, Richard & Margaret — how very proud we are of each of them; how they each grew up to be good people, dealing with life as best as they can; and raising THEIR children — William, Catherine & Sarah, and Daniel & Michael — to be good people also.

We are disappointed that we do not get to see William as often as we want; but thanks to Skype, we keep in touch, and we got to know each other. What will William become? What choices will he make? What opportunities will he take? How will he overcome the obstacles that fate will throw his way?

Then we spoke about Kasia and Sarah — we asked the same questions as for William, and we speculated with equal excitement; and we also thought about how will they treat each other in life — will they be good sisters to each other? Will they stay close to each other? Will they help each other?

Of course, ALL those questions applied equally to Daniel and Michael — will they be good brothers? Helping each other in life’s struggles, and prod each other on to be the best persons they can be?

Then we thought of all of you as a group — the “cousins”! Will you keep in touch with each other? Will you help each other? We certainly hope so — family is a very important concept; and we are all FAMILY! Babcia Krysia and I love each and every one of you. We are very proud of OUR children; and we are also very proud of our grandchildren.

Remember, EACH day is the FIRST day of the rest of your lives — no matter what happened before, each day gives you a new opportunity to better yourself; and new opportunity to do and be good; and a new opportunity to help someone else. Take these opportunities seriously and with much vigor. And for any failings you may experience, apologize if you hurt someone else, get up, dust yourself off, and then, be and do good.

Love,

Dziadziuś Paweł.

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